only if you're 19 or 20 or so

or less.
but i'd be cautious, she could be an ugly chick or wierd. she'll be guarded about this just like you are. i did get to know an ex of mine online... we had met at a party but talked online for a while before we got to know one another well/talked on phone/dated. and she was
hot/cool to boot. meet somewhere PUBLIC, and as they say, meet for drinks, that way dinner is always an option but not a commitment!
talking pg-13 is wearing me out.