Relationship issues.

[YZF Voltage]

Originally Posted by SUfanINsa

to answer your question probably all of us have gone through this at one point or another.....fish or cut bait! it is up to you but me personally i would go and bang one of her friends

your damn right!

[Stang_1973]

TRhanx for all the advice guys, this turned out to be an interesting thread. Just some more background info. Well shes had 2 pretty serious relationships in her life both with assholes, one who was just look for some panty action(that he didnt get). Thats why everyone would say Im the best thing for her.


N E Way, these past few days I was killing myself in depression and stuff, it took alot of friends and even my dad to show me whats up. Basically its like you guys said, if shes out there taking advantage of the time and space, so should I. Now I know she's not out there screwing around shes not that kind of person(shoot shes still a virgin, and has deep rooted spiritual beleifs). So I realized, hell, i come second to no one. Either she wants to be with me or not, plain and simple, So I took into consideration that shes been feeling questionable for quite some time now, but she hasnt addressed any reasons why. So I gave her a week. I am not going to see her, I wont call, she can call me if she wants. I asked her that if she could givie it a try to find out whats up with her (I think I deserve that much). If at the end of that she didnt give it the effort then why am i still waiting. She needs to grow up, I can help her. If she feels what she said she does, she would be willing to try. If after this time goes by and she realizes its over or she doesnt even try anything, then ill end it. But atleast we tried.

So for now, I gotta start livin it up again.

thanx again for all the help.

[superGT2000]

taht the way to do it!!!

[StAnGaLaNg]

there ya go keep ur head up

[Mustang_68_Coup]

Y'know, at your age, when a girl needs a little space, your next course of action should be to go out and have a blast ....

Hit the car shows, or bars, cycle trails, or whatever it is that you do for fun ...

You may meet someone even more suitable for you, or you may just clear some cobwebs outta your head ... either way, it's good for you to not be moping around all upset over the loss.

If she circles back, great; if not, you are well on your way to having your own life back anyway ...

Good luck!

[Mr.SVT]

Originally Posted by Stang_1973

Well I hate to bring this up but Im sorta a rookie at serious relationship issues.

I got with this girl in February. Supposedly she was mad crazy about me, and I was really into her. Im 22 and shes 19. Sa after about a month of back and forth we finally got together. Months went by and everything was great. Her family loves me, her friedns always say that im the best guy shes been with. then in june, she got a new job at the post office working night shift from 11pm to 8 am. Then her brother came back from being stationed. He was here for three weeks and during those weeks in definately got the drift that he didnt like me adn so did other people. It was right around this time that I noticed she started changing. She was alot colder, we were no longer intimate, she always gave me attitude, IDk. Something was up. Then after alot of pryig she finally tells me that she still loves me and still wants to be with m e but she doesnt know how she feels towards me. That its her, she doesnt know what she wants. The more i dug at itthe farther i pushed her away. Right now she says she needs space and time. for what I have no idea, she wont tell me or simply says "IDK"

My question is why? what causes this? have yall gone through it? what did you guys try and what were the outcomes?

You say that and you feel like a twin to me..

The same exact thing happened to me bro, just different jobs, she started working at west and she pushed me away and then months later she says she needs space, after 9 months!!!! she said we needed space and that we moved to fast, i was like WTF!!!!

it killed me inside knowing that a girl i thought ihad loved, didnt love me back, and says that she doesn't know what she wants. it crushed my heart. for 2 weeks i didn't come into work..

alls i can say is, she found someone else, thats usually it,

and the only 3 things is to do to get away from the remorse and depression is this..

1. Hang out with your best friends.. (guys)
2. Forget her, there are 3 billion women on the planet.
3. you and your single friend go pull b*tches from anywhere..and get you some, trust me man, it'll make you feel much better..

she doesn't want space, she doesn't want you, its just an easy way of dumping you.

so go out friday and get laid, thats your cure. it was mine.